What do you do for yourself that’s just for you? Do you work out, meditate?
Are you so busy, going, doing and taking care of others that caring for yourself is not only an afterthought but inconceivable?
You may think with all of the responsibilities you have that self-care is selfish.
I assure you it’s quite the opposite.
Consider how you feel when you don’t take care of yourself. You might feel tired, cranky, overwhelmed, have difficulty making decisions or you might get sick.
If you are struggling with any of these how on earth can you take care of anyone or anything.
However, if you practice a little self-care every day you will:
- Be more productive
- Experience better health
- Increase your self-awareness
- Reduce your stress level
- Have more energy and time to give
“Almost everything will work again if you just unplug them for a few minutes. Including you!” – Anne Lamott
Self-care is the practice of taking an active role in protecting your well-being and happiness, particularly during periods of stress. If you take care of your wellbeing you can take care of the wellbeing of others.
It can be as simple as going for a walk, taking a nap, meditating or preparing a healthy, nutritious meal.
As difficult as it is, saying NO to obligations that you do not have the time or energy for or is not something you are truly interested in is self-care and it relieves stress, too! NO is an empowering word!
When your daily routine includes self-care those periods of stress become fewer and far between and when they do occur, you are able to deal with them in a more calm and controlled manner.
The Three Essentials:
1. Make it simple. Especially when you first begin your self-care routine. Take small steps and incorporate them into our life. Take a walk at lunchtime or turn off all electronics at 8 pm.
2. Plan it. If you’re anything like me, if it isn’t on my calendar it does not happen. Block time in your calendar for your self-care.
3. Make it count. Don’t do it halfway. When you are engaged in your self-care, turn off the phone, the tv and focus on you!
Self-care is different for everyone and there is no wrong way of performing self-care.
Here are some ideas to get you started:
- Get enough sleep
- Eat a healthy diet
- Read a book for fun
- Start a journal
- Go for a walk at lunchtime
- Take your vacation time
- Exercise regularly.
Please visit the link below for idea from my self-care routine and how the concept of 20/20/20 can change your life!
Self Care and Morning Routines
Posted by Living Healthy List on Wednesday, August 28, 2019
Hi, I’m Denise Stegall, The Happy Living Coach. I help guide women 40+ build their dreams, accelerate their results, and create richer more fulfilling lives. I’ve motivated women to come out of their shell and see life in a new way by empowering them to take charge of their health, supporting them to create balance and inspiring them to love the life they live.
Together we will breakthrough limitations and achieve greater results than you ever imagined.